The Wai

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To Wai you put your hands together on your chest and bow your head a little towards the tips of your fingers. There are different reasons to Wai in Thailand. It is used as a greeting, a thank you, to say goodbye, to apologize and to pray to Buddha.

Thais don’t wai everyone, it is usually a sign of respect to someone who is older or wiser such as a Monk. You shouldn’t wai a younger person but you should return the wai if they wai you. Likewise you wouldn’t wai every shop owner when you make a purchase or a maid when she cleans you room.

As a tourist you’ll hear many people tell you not to wai because you aren’t Thai, but i think thats an ignorant way to think. This is a Thai custom that has meaning and feeling in it and as long as you wai in the right circumstance you will be sure to make a Thai smile and even if you did it wrong or it seemed awkward the Thais love to see someone try aspects of their culture.

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3 Responses to The Wai
  1. john
    April 27, 2009 | 4:23 pm

    simple easy to read post and very true show respect and you get it back for sure
    regards John

  2. Jim Jones
    January 12, 2010 | 6:32 am

    Nice post thank you, I love it when little children come up to me and and wai, it’s really sweet.
    .-= Jim Jones´s last blog ..Jan 12, Teaching English In Thailand. =-.

    • Talen
      January 12, 2010 | 8:29 am

      Jim, there really is nothing quite like a small child giving you a wai…warms you up inside.